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Sunday, September 25, 2005

Desperate.

eat snickers and peanute m&m's - satisfy my craving.
to excercise and look good - stay fit and fit-in.
to keep up with 'fashion' - enjoy clothes and make-up.

to learn a new programming language - be marketable in the market.
understand technology better - be able to have an intelligent coversation.
to go back to gradschool - be educated.
do well financially - have a lavish life.

have one long conversation with my dad - share happiness and tell him we are OK.
share things with mom and sister - Advise, suggestions.
spend lots and lots of time with my husband - have a family.
to be near friends - Someone to smile with other than family.
to not be desperate - impossible.

Life is always desperate.... one may not realize it, but we all have some desperations or the other. Really.

5 Comments:

Blogger Keshi said...

Pallavi u said that right! No matter however much we try not to look desperate WE R ALL DESPERATE :) In some way or the other.

U have given some marvellous examples...it is desperation that makes us do all those things. If not why wud we even do anything, love anyone? And to be honest Im sick of being desperate for Life is that after all...and at the end of it, we die...duhhh!

This is a great post! I'm waiting to see what others are going to say...

Hope u had a good weekend Pallavi :)
Keshi.

5:07 PM  
Blogger PuNeEt said...

Well Said Pallavi...
We all have some desperations
That's so true...

We keep satisfying our needs and every time a new one pop up...

Good Post...
Howz u dear...

take care
Cheers

2:02 AM  
Blogger AmitKen said...

it's most definitely the desperation which keeps us going for the kill..

well said :)

5:48 AM  
Blogger Pallavi said...

@PT,
you are right. the more we get the more we want...the more expecations we have..
"Must we feel this way? Is there any escape?" ---- the answer is yes and no..(my personal point) ..yes because if we dont feel deseparate to do well in career, we wont go out of our way to learn the extra things and climb the ladder. but, one must really know the limits and the fine line. Otherwise, its an obsession.
And NO, because ...we really kill the saying " make do- well kept secret of contentment by being DESPERATE" wat a contridiction eh?

@Keshi,
"it is desperation that makes us do all those things. If not why wud we even do anything, love anyone?"
---Yep. Desperation is powerful. Interesting how u say, Love Anyone?
---we are so desperately scared to be alone and much more.

@puneet
How are you? i am doing well. Yes u are correct, as PT said, the more we have the more we want.... and the more we disappoint ourselves. This just made me thikn of a new blog entry...here i go...

@amitken,
hey ya! i like it..keeps us going for the kill!!!

11:49 AM  
Blogger Keshi said...

**we are so desperately scared to be alone and much more

yes..we love ppl cos we wud hate the loneliness...humans r made to love and to be loved...we r desperate for Love...we are always trying hard to be loved...

Keshi.

10:54 PM  

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